Now Playing Tracks

hartorotica:

Hey follower,

Great news, today has been cancelled. Go back to bed - oh wait. Wait, come back here. Good. Hey. You’re kind of looking fantastic, maybe you should actually go out and do something and be an aesthetically pleasing munchkin in the outside world today. Bask in the sunshine or smell summer rain. Go to your favourite café and get your favourite drink and enjoy said drink while listening to your favourite music. Talk to your favourite people, watch your favourite film, read your favourite book. Eat your favourite food.

Fucking treat yourself today, because you are more than worth it, darling. You’re doing absolutely great, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Also the negative thoughts? Not worth the aggro. It gets better, promise.

The truth is that we need relationships, but we don’t need every relationship. Surround yourself with positive people who bring you up, rather than drag you down. You don’t have to sacrifice your sanity because you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. You don’t have to be controlled by your own kindness. You can be a good person without bending to the will of those who damage you with their own selfishness.

You deserve to be happy.

It’s Ok to Say, “I Don’t Want to See You Again”, on How to Remove Toxic People from Your Life.  (via sherlocks)

(Source: bluebird-88)

To all the girls who still talk to their exes:


You are not a corner store. Do not let him come to you at 4am in a drunken stupor asking for something sweet. You are more than candy bar craving. Tell him there is a food market down the street. Do not feel bad when you let him in anyway but I want you to know that this phone call will feel like bricks tied to your face. This late night walk is not the beginning of any thing new.This study break will remind you of your first date. Do not get your hopes up. Try your hardest to talk about the weather and rent. Do not delve into everything you miss about each other. Say you’ve kissed five different guys…and one girl. Say you are moving to Spain. Say your internet is shitty when you hang up Skype quickly, about to cry. Do not call back. Spend the rest of your night drinking wine with your roommate reclaiming your happy. Tell yourself you are Tim Tebow in the end zone. You are Beyonce. You are Miley Cyrus dancing in short shorts on a metal pole. Send him a message first thing in the morning. Pretend this is normal again. Click through prom pictures until you realize five hours have passed and there is still no text back. Cry. Hard. Curse everyone who told you love is patient. Pound your pillow until you can not tell the feathers from your fists. Drink the rest of the wine by yourself. Wonder if in another universe you’re still on that bridge together. Cry again. Harder. Drunk dial him and say that you always had to fake it, that you never want to talk to again, that you hate the way you never stopped loving him and you still wear the bracelet he gave you. You are going to feel alone for a very long time. It will be months before you delete his number from your phone. Sometimes you will still sleep with his flannel as a blanket. None of this will feel like healing. In fact, on the best days it will feel like you keep peeling back skin only to find the same thing underneath. Keep digging. You are more than a bad night. You are more than the best boy you ever had. You are not a corner store. You are the coffee shop you start going to months later. You are the smile you give to the barista when he asks for your number. You are the simple response: Hold the sugar today. I promise, you are better off this way.

b.e.fitzgerald (via befitzgeraldwriting)

p-alindrome:

let me just say a few things about ‘all about that bass’ real quick

  1. it’s a song about body positivity and we don’t get many of those so can we just take that into consideration please
  2. i know people are kicking off about her using the phrase “skinny bitches” but she does follow it up with "no, i’m just playing i know you think you’re fat / but i’m here to tell you that / every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top"  she’s taken an insult commonly given to slim women and basically a said so what if you are skinny/skinny but you think you’re fat, YOU’RE STILL PERFECT 
  3. i’ve seen shit loads of people saying it makes them feel more confident, and slim women get a ton of media reinforcing the idea that their body is perfect anyway
  4. IT’S CATCHY AS FUCK 
To Tumblr, Love Pixel Union